Husband has female massage therapist who is also longtime friend and bartender at his fav bar…?

My husband has a lot of female friends. Most of them are married. He gets full body massages from one married woman who is also the bartender at a bar on post (he’s military.) He has actually only had two since we met 4 months ago.
He has known her since before he met me and she is a seemingly nice and sweet woman, but I’m worried. He has her number, they used to go out drinking (before I knew him), and he has pics of her and him on his comp. My husband hates taking pictures!!!
Now, I do not think he is cheating, because he spends all of his spare time with me, but there are times when he has gotten off of work or back from the field and gone straight to the bar with his friends without inviting me. I know guys need to be guys, but really, am I being irrational? It doesn’t really bother me, I just want to have a few more takes on this.

Your imagination is probably getting the best of you. I was friends with a girl in high school that is now a masseuse. I used to get massages from her while she was getting her training and after as well to support her in her business. She doesn’t tend bar or anything, but we’d still hang out occasionally, and invite each other to parties etc. That’s typical friend behavior. We both got married, and nothing changed. We’ve hung out without our spouses and there’s never been a problem. We’ve never had an affair or anything.

You need to remember that there is nothing dirty or wrong with being a masseuse. They need friends too. There is nothing wrong with giving your friends business either. Would you be weirded out by going to a dentist that was a personal friend? People can be professionals and you don’t need to worry unless there is something else going on that you’re not telling us.

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